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Who Should Get the Ultimate Award?

14 Tuesday Jun 2016

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Sisters Diane and Lorrie

Sisters Diane and Lorrie

Bikeing

Bikeing

Runing

Runing

Mother and Son, AKA--Ryan and Diane

Mother and Son, AKA–Ryan and Diane

Today, (Sunday, 13 June, 2016), I went to a sporting event for the regular folks, not the professional athlete. It was a small, and smaller triathlon, held in Redondo Beach California, on the beach, by the pier. I was there to watch two of my daughters and one of my grandsons participate, along with somewhere around three hundred others.

The events were held in such a way that families could do them. My family was one of many that was taking advantage of the event to have a fun day together. There were fathers and sons, sisters, mothers and daughter, and friends all swimming, biking and running. All of them worked out for months to be able to complete their event.

There were two events and you signed up for the one best for you. The longer of the two had you swim one half mile in the ocean, bike six miles and run two miles. The Minnie was half of that, swim a quarter mile, bike three miles and run one mile.

My grandson, Ryan, did the longer one with ease. He is young, which makes him immortal like all young people. My two daughters, Lorrie and Diane, are in their fifties and had to work hard for months to get ready to do the shorter one. The ocean swim alone, out through the surf – swim a quarter of a mile – and back in through the surf would stop 95% of most people. (All my daughters are special. My third one, Shelly, waited until she raised three kids to adults to go to college).

I, on the other hand, sat in my walker and watched as they all sweated by me. I did however, manage to find enough energy to take a few pictures, and after about two hours the event was over and the awards were given out.

There were a number of categories that awards were given to. There was a first, second and third in each one, and many people got one, but the one award they didn’t give, which in my estimation, should have been the Ultimate award, was last place.

The person that struggled across the finish line last, had more pain, suffering, and gut commitment, than anyone else in the event. We never seem to hold them up as special. We should honor them, for they are in reality the most special of all. My apologies to all the winners. (Just a note …. No one in my family would have won that award today.)

Pop and the Bucket

15 Friday Apr 2016

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This story starts with my dad, (Pop), asking me to come to Cardiff in San Diego County where he and my mother lived in a mobile home park, (long since torn down and made into a state park). It was located on the water at the foot of the cliffs leading to Solana Beach.
There was a rock reef, exposed at low tide out in front of their mobile home, and we often fished from it. My dad would go out when the tide was real low and collect mussel, (a type of bivalve/clam), off the rocks, open them up, take out the meat, salt it down, freeze it, and it became the bait we used to fish in the surf and off the reef. We caught a lot of fish over the years and it was nearly the only thing I ever did with my dad as an adult. He was 70 when this story took place.
It took me about an hour to drive down to their place from Santa Ana where I lived and taught at Santa Ana College. He was waiting for me when I got there at 6 a.m. so we could catch the low tide, walk clear to the end of the reef, and cast way out to where some big calico bass and sheep head lived. Later in the morning, as the tide came in, we would move off the rocks to the beach and fish for Corbina and perch in the surf. The rocks became very dangerous when the waves started breaking over them as the tide came up.
I was watchful of Pop, at 70, he wasn’t as steady on his feet as he used to be, but he knew this reef well, every crack and hole in the rocks. He was born in 1899 and raised just a few miles back from this beach on a farm. His brothers and sisters would hike to the beach and fish off this very same reef when he was only seven. It had been his friend for sixty-three years, and still was.
We caught a few nice bass and the waves were getting where they were washing over the reef, I shouted over their noise, (my dad called it the “Sea Serenade”), and said, “Pop, let’s move over to the surf and try for some surf perch.” Pop liked to eat the perch and so did I. I walked over to him and picked up the bucket with our bait in it. Pop had his hands full with a 12-foot fishing rod in one hand and rod holder in the other. He made his own rod holder. It was ½ inch rebar three feet long and sharpened on one end with a two foot piece of two inch steel pipe welded to the other end, to put the butt of his surf rod in. It weighed at least seven pounds and he was using it as a walking stick to get across the uneven rocks, which were now under water as each wave passed over them.
Back to ‘The Bucket.’ When I picked up the bucket I was caught off-guard; it must have weighed about 25 pounds. It was like lifting one of my diving lead weight belts.
After we walked a hundred yards down the beach, and set up our gear, I asked, “Pop, why is the bucket so heavy?” The bait in it couldn’t have been more than a few pounds, and his spare reel he always took along was only a pound or two. He always carried some extra sinkers he molded out of lead from old tire balancing weights, but not 20 pounds worth. He was on his way to wade out into the surf and make a cast.
He glanced back, looked at the bucket, and said, “Those old metal buckets (he got it before the days of plastic), don’t last as well as they should. That one rusted out in the bottom. (No kidding, he had been fishing with it at the beach in salt water for 15 years). I fixed it so it will last at least as long as I can still carry it.” He laughed, walked out waist deep in the water, and cast out. He backed up so the water was only knee deep, which is what we always did when fishing the surf. I did the same thing and came back and stood next to him.
I just had to ask the question. “Pop, how did you fix it?’ I couldn’t imagine what he had done.
The answer was simple and matter of fact. “I poured three inches of concrete in it.” Just then he hooked a two-pound Corbina and we never talked about the bucket again. He was still using it when he fished with me for the last time at age 85. The only difference was I had to climb out on the rocks and get the bait.
Whenever I get the urge to buy something new, I remember the bucket…maybe you should too.

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Tomorrow is Easter

25 Friday Mar 2016

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I wrote this last year and it seemed like a good way to start out my Blog. Hope you agree.

Tomorrow is Easter. April 5 2015. This morning I got up at 4:30 am and watched as the moon hid in the shadow of the earth, an event that helps us to define who we are and what we are.  It made me reflect back on my life. What popped into my head was the Easters I spent as a child. They were some of the happy times in my life that we old people that live at the end of the street enjoy, in our travels of memory.

In my family we all gathered at my aunt Aggie’s house. There were about 20 of us. The years were in the early 1940s. She and Uncle Leo had about an acre of land right on the Los Angeles river somewhere in “the valley,” I have no idea now where that would be but it was rural. She had a goat that she milked and my cousins and I would go out and see if we could milk it. We were primarily city kids and milking a goat was a skill we didn’t possess. My aunt would squirt the milk in our mouth from three feet away. Of course it would get all over us and that was part of the fun.

Being right across the street from the river, the cousins (there were four of us that lived close enough to be there), were given the duty of collecting enough crawdads to put in the salad. The L.A. River was all mud banks in those days and it was full of crawdads.  We even had a swimming hole in it, and went swimming if the weather permitted us to without our mothers thinking we would get too cold and get sick. My mother and all my aunts would prepare the meal and of course the crawdad salad was my favorite part of it.

As I write this there are tears running down my face. These were wonderful times. Now the river is all cement. No more crawdads. No more swimming hole. No more goat milk. All of those people are dead now, except me and two of my cousins. I don’t think any of us have had a crawdad salad or gone swimming in a swimming hole or milked a goat for a long long time. What a travesty that is.

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